Who do you most look to for development in your role? If it's your boss, you're not alone. But in today's episode we discuss why relying on your manager to be the one to develop you is not the best strategy - and what you can do instead to take ownership of your own development
Key points from this episode
- Why you shouldn't rely on your manager to develop you (even if they're a great boss)
- The reasons your manager might not be able to develop you in the ways that are most valuable for your career
- The value of informal vs formal development
- 5 Practical ways to drive your own development
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Transcript
Hello and welcome to this week's episode.
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:This one has been in the planning stages
for a little while and it's one that both
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:of us are really passionate about and
that is the topic of why you shouldn't
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:rely on your boss to develop you.
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:And We both have seen and have
experienced in our own careers,
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:this idea that your boss should
be the person that develops you.
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:And our view is quite different,
I think, as a result of the
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:experience that we've had and the
work that we do with our clients.
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:So Pam, kick us off then, what are the
kind of key reasons why people shouldn't
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:rely on their bosses counterintuitive.
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:Pamela: So the first thing to think
about is, whether that boss is actually
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:capable of developing you and it's
not always the case that they are.
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:You don't know how they
got to that position.
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:You don't know what they know, or
you might know some of what they
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:know, but generally, they might
not be capable of developing you.
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:They might not, they might've done
really well to get to where they
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:are and develop themselves in some
way, but they might not have that
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:ability to be able to develop you.
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:Jacqui: It is a real skill to be able
to develop other people, and I think the
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:assumption that your boss should be the
person to develop you makes the unspoken
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:assumption that your boss is capable.
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:So I think that's a
really important point.
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:Your boss might have all the desire and
all the hope and will, and want you to be
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:able to develop, but they may not have the
capability to actually help you to develop
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:in the ways that you need to develop.
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:Pamela: Yeah.
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:And I think we're all very much
conditioned or we have been in the past
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:that start of your career, you get a
job, you learn from your manager, your
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:manager develops you, you progress
through your career, they help you.
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:But we know that isn't
always the case, isn't it?
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:Because even if they've got the
capability, they might not have
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:that desire to help you develop.
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:Jacqui: Yeah.
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:And.
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:Even if they do, so even assuming that
they've got the capability and the
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:desire, if you're an ambitious manager
or a leader, then the person you're
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:reporting into is probably really busy.
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:And even if they have both the
capability and the desire, they
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:may still not have the time and
capacity to be able to develop you.
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:So you've got, they've got to have
all of those three for that to be
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:something that's even going to happen.
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:So I think when you start to look at
what are the chances that your boss has
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:all of those three things available to
them, then straight away you can start
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:to see why it may not be the smartest
strategy to rely on them to develop you.
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:But what are some of the other reasons?
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:So if you assume that potentially you have
got a boss that's got all those three.
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:We would still argue that you
shouldn't rely on that person.
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:And that perhaps sounds weird.
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:So why would we say that?
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:Pamela: I think the main reason is
always going to be that you will lose
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:ownership of your own career development.
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:And putting your career development
into the hands of someone else,
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:like it's never going to be the
version that you actually want.
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:It's going to be their version
based on their perception and
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:what they think you're capable of.
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:Whereas if you take real ownership.
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:Of your career, then you can create the
version of your career that you want to
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:grow into, even if you're coming down
to the money that you want to earn and
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:all of the good stuff that sits behind
that, when you take ownership, you are
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:being intentional and you are making
sure that all of those things that you
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:want and all of the things that you'd
like to achieve that you've got that,
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:you've got the best plan to make that
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:Jacqui: happen.
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:I love that word intentional and
having those choices that you are
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:making rather than placing that
responsibility with somebody else is
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:really fundamental to our philosophy.
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:Our strapline for the whole podcast
is take ownership of your career.
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:And so absolutely, I agree that
it's really important not to
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:lose ownership by placing that
in the hands of somebody else.
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:I would also say when you are reliant on.
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:Your boss, naturally, the goals
in terms of your development that
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:your boss is going to have, they're
probably hopefully going to have
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:your best interests at heart.
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:But fundamentally, their role
is to deliver on behalf of the
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:organization that they're employed by.
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:And so not only are you losing
ownership, but also the development
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:goals then become shaped by.
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:Making you more able to deliver
company goals as opposed
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:to your own personal goals.
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:So it's another aspect of that kind of
choice and intentionality, isn't it?
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:Pamela: Yeah, and it's a really good
point that you make there as well
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:because ordinarily most managers are not
going to want their people to move on.
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:So there's always that element
of, are they suppressing you
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:to keep you in that role?
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:Are they really going to develop you?
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:Because depending on how fast they develop
you determines how quick you move on.
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:So it's almost like you
give the ownership to them.
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:And they keep you small or they
suppress your development for a
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:period of time that suits them.
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:Jacqui: It's a really interesting point.
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:Just last week I was having a conversation
with another coach and one of their
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:clients was in that predicament where they
wanted to move on and they had this debate
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:going of do I tell my boss that I'm going
for An interview, or do I not because my
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:boss values loyalty and wants people to
stay and wants to keep the team as it is.
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:So this was somebody that was taking
ownership of their career and their
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:development, but they had a boss.
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:who they knew that was at risk.
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:So it's if I go for an interview and
I get it, they're going to find out
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:and be hurt that I didn't tell them.
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:If I go for an interview and I tell
them, but then I don't get it, then
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:they're going to be hurt that I've wanted
to get out for my own personal goals.
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:So I think that piece really
does come into play where.
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:At a conscious or a subconscious
level, a lot of bosses, naturally, if
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:they've got a team that is working and
they've worked hard to build it, they
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:do want to keep some stability and it's
going to present a challenge for them.
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:if you are the superstar and you're
having all these other opportunities
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:and you go off and make progress.
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:And with good people, often
even at a subconscious level,
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:there is still that element.
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:And I know I've been that person.
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:I'm really passionate
about people's development.
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:Look at what I do for a living.
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:But I know that in the past, I've had
that kind of Oh, I really want you to
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:develop it if you can just give me six
more months to just get to this point
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:so I can have another person ready.
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:And so yeah, absolutely, it's it and it
all feeds into that thing of, it's about
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:the organization's goals it's about their
goals rather than your own personal goals.
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:So what's the final one then?
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:Cause I think this is the one that
we're now going to start to move on
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:to sharing a bit of how to do this.
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:Pamela: Yeah.
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:So the final one is that you need to
develop the skills to develop yourself.
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:Because without that skill you will
just keep going around in circles and
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:letting other people take ownership
or letting other people push you in
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:directions that, you don't know if
those directions are right for you and
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:the only way that you will know is by
taking ownership and creating that real
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:clear strategy for your future career.
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:And taking ownership.
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:Jacqui: Developing
yourself is a skill set.
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:And I think it's easy for that to be
sidelined because it feels quite selfish.
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:To put your energy and attention
into learning how to develop
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:yourself feels a bit selfish.
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:But also on the other side, there
is that element then of, but
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:isn't that somebody else's job?
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:So I'm always amazed at how many people
come to me and self fund for coaching.
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:And I really admire that because it's
people investing in themselves and
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:their career in a way that I really
didn't realize when I was employed.
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:And I was fortunate enough to have
external coaches that my company had
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:funded and I hand on heart don't know if
I would have done that for myself had that
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:have not been paid for by my employer.
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:So if people are ready to do that
and recognize, do you know what,
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:that is an incredible skill to be
able to develop myself is going to
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:make a huge difference to my career.
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:Where do people start with that?
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:If you've been that person who's
waited and hoped that development
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:was going to be forthcoming and it
hasn't, or if that development has
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:been shaped around company goals, and
now you want to take ownership of it.
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:Where do you start with learning
how to develop yourself?
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:Pamela: I think the first point
is going to be around clarity.
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:You need to really think about what
you want to develop because I see a
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:lot of people, I see so many CVs with
so many training courses on where
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:people have had opportunities to
go on training courses, and they've
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:literally jumped on every single one.
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:Because they felt like the more training
courses that they do, and that they
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:can document on their CV, that's going
to help them further the career when
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:in actual fact, taking a step back
and getting really clear on which are
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:the areas that I need to develop, it
will allow you to look for the right
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:opportunities, it will allow you to look
at the right training courses and, to
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:even request those through work and where
that's not possible, you can see what
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:other resources are available out there.
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:You can have conversations, like
there's so many things that you can
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:do once you've got that clarity on
what it is that you need to develop.
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:Jacqui: And I think what you need to
develop comes from, clarity around
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:what is it that you want to get?
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:What opportunity do you
want to create for yourself?
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:What do you want over the
next phase of your career?
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:And if people go back and listen to
the New Year episodes that we did just
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:a few weeks ago, where we talked about
reflecting and then on thinking about
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:reverse engineering your career strategy.
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:That's where we talked in some depth
about that process of getting that clarity
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:about what do you want from your career.
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:And if you haven't listened to that, I
would definitely start with that because
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:otherwise, the danger is you try and
get that clarity about what do I need to
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:develop, but there's so many things up in
the air and it's hard to prioritize them
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:if you haven't got a purpose in mind.
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:So if you've got 17 things that you
could develop or you think you would
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:benefit from developing, then if you've
got a next goal in mind, whether that
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:be a promotion or a career change or a
next level, something different, then
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:it makes it so much easier to rank
those different forms of development
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:or different opportunities in terms
of how much will this particular thing
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:help me towards that particular goal.
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:Pamela: Yeah.
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:And that's a really good point because
especially as you move like further
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:and further up the ranks within your
career, it usually does come down to
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:three key areas of like strategy, the
commercial elements and leadership.
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:So it's like when you're thinking
about clarity and what, where
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:do I need to develop and what
do I need to develop next?
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:It's like really narrow it down to those
different things, because otherwise,
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:like you say, you can have 17 different
things that you think you need to develop.
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:But in reality, if you, I always take
it back to being in an interview, right?
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:So if you are thinking about the next step
in your career path and you are sitting
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:there right now interviewing for that
role, what do they need to hear from you?
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:What do they need to see from you?
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:What do you need to evidence?
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:And that is going to be where.
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:The clarity around what you need to
develop is going to come from because that
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:is where you can have that real honest
conversation with yourself that says, if I
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:got asked around strategy in an interview
for the next step up or the next move
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:in my career, how would I evidence that?
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:Maybe I could a little bit.
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:Maybe I really couldn't or yeah, I've
got loads of things that I can talk
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:about and I've had lots of exposure
to developing and designing strategies
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:and all of that kinds of stuff.
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:So that's where you can really drill down.
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:If you think how do I get the clarity?
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:Just think about being in that
interview seat and what they
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:might need to hear from you.
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:And that is definitely going to throw
out some of those key starting points.
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:Jacqui: I love that advice.
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:And that puts me in mind when I talk
to clients about the different ways
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:that you can develop yourself, I put
it into three buckets, if you like,
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:so you can develop your knowledge, you
can develop your skills, and you can
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:develop your behaviors or character.
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:And very often, coming back to what
you were saying about interview.
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:People naturally lean towards knowledge.
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:People think I need to know more in
order to be better at my job or in
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:order to get another opportunity.
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:When you go to an interview,
they're not asking what you know.
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:There's a certain benchmark, obviously,
for every role of knowledge that you need.
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:But what they really want is
your skills and your behaviors.
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:That's what a competency
based interview is looking at.
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:It's looking at how do
you apply your knowledge?
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:How do you develop skills
and what behaviors can we
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:expect from you in this role?
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:So those interview questions are
typically, and the more senior you
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:go, the more that tends to be the case
that knowledge becomes comparatively
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:less the golden ticket and your
behaviors become more the golden ticket
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:because that leadership capacity,
that strategic ability is far more
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:sitting in the skills and behavior
buckets as opposed to the knowledge.
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:So very often what people think they need
in order to develop themselves changes.
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:When they get that clarity of where am
I heading for and then, like you said, I
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:absolutely love that advice of thinking
of it when you sat in an interview because
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:it's such a, it's such an easy thing for
people to think, yeah what questions might
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:I be asked when I go for that next role?
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:Ah, yeah, maybe that changes
what I need to focus on.
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:Pamela: Yeah, because then straight
away you can just see the gaps that
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:you've got and then you can look at what
training courses, what conversations, what
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:coaching could help me to plug those gaps.
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:And it just makes it
that little bit clearer.
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:Jacqui: And I think the other thing
as well, when you start to prioritize,
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:one of the things that's helpful is
to also consciously deprioritize so
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:very often when people start thinking
about developing themselves or you
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:know how to progress in their career,
they come up with this huge list, and
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:we see it all the time where people
are looking at leadership roles.
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:They're looking at getting a promotion
or they're looking at applying
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:for a new job, and they feel like
they've got to have absolutely
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:everything on the shopping list.
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:And it's very easy for that to
drive this assumption of I've
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:got to be skilled in everything.
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:And the reality is you don't, there's
always going to be things that you don't
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:need as much or things that are less key.
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:And so I think that letting go of things
and feeling like, yeah, okay, I'm going to
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:take these areas and really focus on those
because the roles that I want are going
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:to have more of that and the roles that
I'm doing Fine, I can leave that behind.
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:I don't need to be more skilled at the
job I've already got I need to develop
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:the skills for the job that I want
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:Pamela: Yeah, exactly.
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:And I, I love that research that you
talked about as well, where you said
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:where people have most benefited
from development opportunities.
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:I thought that was a really good
model to, to think about, when
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:you're trying to get that clarity
around what you need to develop.
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:Jacqui: Yeah.
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:And I think the other thing as well, when
people then start to get that clarity
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:about what they need to develop is then
thinking about how can they create that.
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:And the assumption often is that
it needs to be those courses.
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:It needs to be formal training.
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:I need to go on a leadership course or
I need to learn about strategy or I need
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:to do, I don't know, a project management
qualification or whatever it may be.
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:And again, people can then get frustrated
if there isn't budget or there isn't
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:opportunity, but there's so much
that you can do that does not rely on
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:formal training and qualifications.
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:So typically, that only
accounts for about 10%.
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:If you think about
what, how you've gained.
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:All of the skills and experience and
capacity for doing what you do in your
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:career and look back on how you gained it.
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:You'll find inevitably the
vast majority has come from
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:conversations with colleagues.
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:It's come from doing things
and learning from them.
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:It's come from, Googling, listening
to podcasts, watching YouTube videos.
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:It's come from things that are not
big formal types of development.
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:And I think people underestimate the
value of informal mentoring within the
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:workplace of having conversations with
people who've made the types of career
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:progression that you're aspiring to
and of just throwing themselves in.
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:Pamela: And that's the thing because
when we're talking about the it's
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:the 70, 20, 10 model, isn't it?
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:That, that you were talking about.
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:And when you said 70 percent of
development happens through on the
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:job experience, it's Wow we don't even
realize that do we because we're so
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:caught up a lot of the time in our to
do lists and just delivering because
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:it's part of the job that we don't
realize that every day that we're in
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:work regardless of what we're working on
we're actually developing in some way.
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:Like every day, if you look for
it, there's the learning, there is
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:something that you can take away
from each day, whether it's an
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:interaction, a thought, a feeling,
whatever you've had, there's something
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:that you can take away from each day.
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:And then like leading on to that
is the 20 percent that happens
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:socially through those conversations.
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:Whoever Like having a quiet work
environment was going to be useful.
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:Those conversations, those on
the job conversations, those
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:conversations that you have in
passing, they're all also helping
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:towards your development, aren't they?
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:Because they're those conversations
that, that you listen to that
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:you have, where you getting those
things out of your head, aren't you?
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:And.
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:Almost thrashing them out with
different types of people as
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:you go throughout the day.
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:So valuable.
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:Jacqui: And not just in the workplace,
it can be, socially with people that
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:are at a similar career stage of you.
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:There's so many opportunities for
informal and I've got someone that
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:I we joke about calling it fizzy
brain and she runs a development
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:company and literally I cannot have a
conversation with her, without my brain
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:sparking in a million different ways.
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:And that's because she just has this
innate ability to ask questions or to
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:float ideas that really just spin my
head and help me to think in different
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:ways and see different perspectives.
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:And that is so incredibly valuable for me
because I really value my own development.
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:So spending time with people who create
that spark in you, who help you to
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:think differently, who ask you questions
about what you do and why you do it.
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:And all of that stuff, I remember my
very first coach having a similar thing
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:where I was like frustrated that I wanted
more formal learning opportunities.
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:And I still remember to this day,
getting to that conclusion from her very
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:skillful questioning where I was Oh.
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:My entire job is a
development opportunity.
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:She was like, you don't say.
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:Pamela: And that's the thing, isn't it?
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:Because sometimes you don't realize,
and because you have that expectation,
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:because we're conditioned to have
that expectation that we learn from
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:our managers and they will develop
us and they will help us to progress.
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:Like it's, if we're honest,
we've all been conditioned to a
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:certain extent to believe that.
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:I suppose it's now like thinking
about reframing that, isn't it?
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:And thinking about how
do I take ownership?
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:How do I stop leaving it to chance?
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:How do I take my career out of someone
else's hands and start being more
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:intentional and really taking the
ownership or taking the ownership back?
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:If, if you feel like you've had somebody
that's been cool on the shots, take
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:the ownership back now is the time.
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:to do that.
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:So I suppose in terms of practical
tips, what would you say the
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:first thing that people need to
do to take that ownership back?
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:Jacqui: There's probably
hundreds that we could pick.
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:And as ever, we've cherry picked.
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:So there's five that I would cherry pick.
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:And the first of those just picking up
on that conversation we were just having.
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:Is thinking about intentionally learning
from other people, but specifically
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:people who you don't want to be like.
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:So this one comes up for me very often
with clients, they will want career
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:progression and they will pinpoint
somebody who has managed to, in their
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:eyes, inexplicably and unjustifiably,
get on and progress and have the type
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:of opportunity that they're aspiring to.
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:And the things they'll say to me
is, they're always spouting stuff on
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:LinkedIn or, they're not even that
good at their job, but they just
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:seem to get these opportunities.
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:And I'm like, so look at what are
the things that they're doing?
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:Who are they speaking to?
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:How are create, how are they creating
those career opportunities for themselves?
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:And how can you do that in
a way that is right for you?
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:That you can really learn from.
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:How are those people that you
don't want to be like, how have
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:they got those opportunities?
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:And it's the same with leadership.
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:Look at people who you don't want to be
like, what are your golden rules for the
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:things you don't want to do as a leader?
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:And as soon as you start looking at those
things, You can create those those ways
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:of being or, different behaviors that you
can focus on that can be different to the
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:people that you don't want to be like.
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:Pamela: Yeah, I think that's a really
good way of doing that, of thinking
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:about what you don't want to be.
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:Because I think sometimes when you
can't if we ask somebody the question
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:what is it that you want to develop?
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:What is your key focus?
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:A lot of the time, especially if
there's loads of stuff going on.
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:People don't always know what to focus
in on, but when you look at it from
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:that other aspect of what don't you
want to be like, what, what, like
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:in terms of like leadership, how,
who are the people that you really
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:don't like their leadership approach.
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:That's where then you can start drilling
down to the good stuff and really
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:thinking about what you want to do.
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:It's.
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:No matter what you do, thinking about
what you don't want is always going
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:to get you closer to what you do want.
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:Jacqui: So which would you
pick out then of our others?
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:What do you feel has been
really helpful for you?
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:Pamela: I think one of the key things
that was absolutely game changing for me
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:in my career was consistent reflection.
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:And.
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about reflection because I was like, how
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this far down the path of my life
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reflection and knew what it is.
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thinking about it, but never really
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it and the power of reflecting.
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gone what hadn't gone so well,
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forward on the basis of that reflection,
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forward and be stronger and really know
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towards and really get that focus.
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a case of go in, do the work next day.
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of eat, sleep, repeat work cycle
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order, but it's, you just go through
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look back to move forward because
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when really that reflection time.
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and tell you so much about yourself
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that I use each week for reflection.
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or been reminded of this week?
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that I ask myself at the end of each
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it's not even stuff that you've.
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it's stuff that you have been
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it's hard to create a consistent
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incredibly valuable when people do it.
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pick out is seek out challenges.
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of developing yourself, Staying
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you're going to develop yourself
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and it requires being willing to be
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your career, the harder that can be.
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reflection and think, how did I
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you didn't know how to do yet.
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and the more you gain status
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it can be hard to take a risk and feel
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but taking an opportunity that you don't
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for self development and learning.
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to see, what you need to develop and,
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help you to figure out, where those key
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be asking for feedback.
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times on the podcast, haven't we?
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and how uncomfortable feedback can be, but
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and really checking in with yourself can
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making sure that you are asking the right
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feedback on the right things as well,
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asking for really specific feedback will
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episode on how to get feedback that
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that you can go back and listen to that
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me is teach or mentor others.
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help learning or development to stick is
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that allows you to help somebody else.
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kind of knowledge, understanding, context.
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happen, but you might not think about why
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is a great opportunity to help reflect
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it succinctly to somebody else.
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that's incredibly valuable is
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learn from your mentee.
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the mentor, it should be one way.
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of the wise elder and the mentee
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where I've been a mentor, I have learned
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myself in some way from that relationship
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build your own development.
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good one to record this week.
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particularly that as I've been able to
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think it would have been really useful.
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in our career development workshops
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and you are thinking that you would
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for your teams into your business,
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can give you all of the information
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that we run under Catalyst careers.
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